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\"thaiexpresslove2\"<\/a>Thai people are naturally very reserved in public, and often frown upon public displays of affection by foreigners.\u00a0 Whilst it is becoming more common to see teenagers messing around, holding hands, and being affectionate towards each other, you are very unlikely to see this amongst the older generations.\u00a0 Thais who have foreign partners may be a little bit more relaxed in popular tourist areas, but in rural areas public displays of affection are very much a no no.\u00a0 Shows of affection are typically reserved for in the privacy of the home and out of the public view.<\/p>\n

Thais also place greater value on taking care of and looking after their loved ones rather than grand romantic gestures and intimate moments.\u00a0 This can often make Thai relationships seem rather cool and clinical to an outsider.<\/p>\n

Here are five ways to express your feelings in Thailand:<\/p>\n

Say Them!<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can tell somebody that you love them in Thai.\u00a0 The personal pronouns for male and female speakers are different, so a male would say \u201cpomme rack khun\u201d and a female would say \u201cchan rack khun\u201d.\u00a0 The gender of the subject is immaterial therefore the rest of the sentence remains the same.\u00a0 To tell somebody that you miss them you can tell them \u201cpomme \/ chan kittern khun\u201d and to say that you like somebody you could say \u201cpomme \/ chan chorb khun\u201d.\u00a0 Obviously the written form would be in the Thai alphabet \u2013 these phrases have been spelt phonetically for ease.<\/p>\n

Be Gentle.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Without too much physical contact, a gentle touch here and there can speak volumes without any need for words.\u00a0 When sitting in a restaurant or a bar, walking around the shops, or doing a spot of sightseeing, a light lingering touch to your loved one\u2019s arms can mean so much.\u00a0 Speak kindly to your beloved \u2013 Thais do not like confrontation or harsh language.<\/p>\n

Take Care.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"thaiexpresslove\"<\/a>Show that you care about your partner by making sure their needs are met.\u00a0 For example, if they are carrying heavy bags, offer to help them (whether you or they are male or female).\u00a0 If you pop into a shop to buy a soda, buy one for your partner too and let this small gesture show that you thought about them.\u00a0 There are many such small ways that you can express your feelings in Thailand, simply by showing someone that you thought about them and care about their needs and wants.\u00a0 This also extends to family members \u2013 the family is very important in Thai society, with greater respect often being shown to parents and elders than in Western countries.\u00a0 Extending your care to the family unit will help to express your feelings for your partner.<\/p>\n

Speak with your Eyes<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whilst physical contact is out, eye contact is very much in.\u00a0 Hold the gaze of your romantic interest for slightly longer than normal, and smile.\u00a0 Your eyes will also smile, and will say so much without you needing to utter a single word.<\/p>\n

Avoid Anger<\/strong><\/p>\n

Thais do not like excessive shows of emotion, whether this is affection, anger, ecstasy, and so on.\u00a0 One way to completely repel someone, however, is by becoming loud, angry, and aggressive.\u00a0 Thais often think of people who start screaming and shouting, and also those who burst into tears, as being irrational, foolish, and slightly mad!\u00a0 Think about not only the words, but also your tone, volume, and facial expressions.<\/p>\n

With these five handy ways to express your feelings, sail along in lovely bliss with your Thai object of amour. If you\u2019d like to extend your knowledge of all things Thai \u2013 including the language \u2013 send us a quick enquiry<\/a> to get the ball rolling on your Thai fairytale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Thai people are naturally very reserved in public, and often frown upon public displays of affection by foreigners.\u00a0 Whilst it is becoming more common to see teenagers messing around, holding hands, and being affectionate towards each other, you are very unlikely to see this amongst the older generations.\u00a0 Thais who have foreign partners may be(\u2026)<\/p>\n

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